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Friday, 20 November 2009

  • Music to Pray By

    Not too long ago, I stumbled upon this blog.  The author is a musician who has a podcast where he releases what he calls “Music to Pray By” (which is also the name of the blog).  The music is piano based and I find it soothing and spiritual. 

    He also has an entire album you can download for free by clicking here (you can choose the entire album, specific songs, or you can download his podcast entries).  I highly recommend it. 

Thursday, 12 November 2009

  • That’s What Friends Are For

    Awhile back I found this sermon by Chuck Colson but have yet to share it on my blog…

    So, here is the link to the pdf of the sermon.  It is a good read that will only take about twenty minutes of your time.  The most interesting part of the sermon in my opinion was the “levels of friendship” that he discusses:

    And lastly,  Friendships come in varying degrees, some of whom play more
    significant roles in our life than others;

    Acquaintances are people we have sporadic contact with. We’re
    cordial and ask each other “How are ya?” but always answer “Just
    fine!” Acquaintances are a first-layer surface kind of friendship.


    Casual friends are those we have more contact with, or have
    common interests, and can have more specific conversations with. We
    may even ask a casual friend’s opinion on something once in a great
    while. But we keep a safe distance between us!


    Close friends share similar life goals and are those we discuss the
    hard questions with. Close friends do projects together, socialize
    together, and sometimes even vacation together.


    Intimate friends are defined by regular contact and a deep
    commitment! We’re open and vulnerable with one another! We
    anxiously await each other’s opinions. We are free to confront because
    we trust their love is genuine. Intimate friends know everything about us,
    and yet love us anyway!

    It is food for thought.

Thursday, 05 November 2009

  • A Knee-Jerk Test

    Try this:  I am going to tell you three true stories, and you write down your very first or “knee-jerk” reaction to the three of them…

     

    The other night whilst in bed my wife says to me “It’s cold” so I ask her if she wants me to turn the heat up and she says “No, I like being in bed when it’s cold.  The weight of the extra covers and the feel of your arms wrapped around me make me happy”

    Jamie and I are friends with a great Christian couple who like to go backpacking across Europe.  They usually go around Christmas time.

    I have a friend who recently finished both his M-DIV and a Th. M (post-M-DIV, pre Ph.D degree).  He is now living overseas pursuing his Ph.D. at the University of Edinburgh. 

    So, what did you write down?  Did it include something along the lines of “I wish that could be me” at any point?  If you are like me, then the answer is yes.  Who  has not looked at someone else’s success and wished you were in their place?  How quickly do we forget all of our blessings when we see someone who has something we want?

    I encourage you to think about this as you move forward with your life; every time you hear of or read a story of someone' else’s success, pause and give thanks for your own blessings before wishing for someone else’s. 

Friday, 30 October 2009

Monday, 26 October 2009

  • All At Once-Follow up

    This is a follow up to my story All At Once.  You may want to read it before reading the rest of this story.

    So, we finally had our neighbors over for dinner this evening (which included homemade lasagna and fresh baked French bread with a hint of garlic)

     

    It was interesting and quite fun.  They were very nice but more importantly they were very transparent; they didn’t pretend to be something they were not.  We don’t know them all that well; however, after enjoying dinner along with some homemade mint chocolate chip ice cream, we indulged in a conversation that spanned nearly five hours.  We discussed life, hopes, dreams, where we were, where we are and where we plan on being and even got into religion and theology a little bit.

    Jamie and I value transparent people; we try and be transparent with the people around us.  Although we are only going to be in Lufkin for a few more months, I think we have found some good friends.  And you can never have too many of those.

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